As a parent, it’s completely natural to worry if your toddler isn’t talking yet. You’re not alone—and you’re not overreacting either.
But before panic sets in, take a breath. Speech development varies widely among children. Some talk early, while others take their time. The key is to observe, not obsess.
Let’s walk through what you can track and look out for—so you can feel informed and empowered, not anxious.
When Is a Speech Delay Actually a Delay?
Most children speak their first words around 12 months and begin combining words by 18 to 24 months. But this is a range, not a rulebook.
Things like being in a bilingual household, having older siblings who “speak for them,” or simply being a quieter child can all contribute to later talking without it being a problem.
However, there are warning signs—and being aware of them early makes all the difference.
6 Things to Track Before You Worry
Here’s what I recommend parents observe before assuming the worst:
1. Hearing Ability
One of the most common (and overlooked) reasons for speech delay is hearing difficulty.
Does your child respond to their name?
Do they react to music, claps, or the doorbell?
If not, a hearing test is a smart first step.
2. Understanding (Receptive Language)
Even if they’re not speaking yet, can they follow simple instructions like “Give me the ball” or “Wave bye-bye”?
Comprehension matters as much as expression.
3. Non-Verbal Communication
Is your toddler using gestures like pointing, shaking their head, waving, or reaching?
These are all powerful ways children communicate before they have words.
4. Social Connection
Do they make eye contact, engage with you, smile when you smile?
Social interaction is closely tied to language development.
5. Play Patterns
Are they involved in pretend play (feeding a doll, pretending to talk on the phone), or copying actions like clapping or blowing kisses?
This shows symbolic thinking, which links to language.
6. Overall Milestones
Is everything else on track—like walking, fine motor skills, emotional expression?
If multiple areas seem delayed, it’s worth looking deeper.
When Should You Seek Help?
If your child is 18 months and not saying any words, or over 2 years old and not combining two words, it’s time to have a conversation with your pediatrician or a specialist.
Other signs to watch for:
- Regression: If your child had words and stopped using them
- Lack of response: To name, gestures, or sound
- Frustration or tantrums due to inability to express needs
Early intervention is not about labeling your child—it’s about supporting them at the right time with the right tools.
Replace Panic with Proactive Parenting
The goal here isn’t to diagnose from Google or compare your child with others. It’s to become an observer and advocate.
Many late talkers catch up beautifully. And for those who do need support, starting early often leads to the best outcomes.
If You’re Unsure, Ask
As a pediatric neurologist, I often see families who just want reassurance—and that’s a good thing.
If you’re worried or unsure, it’s okay to reach out. A professional opinion can offer clarity, calm, and a clear plan forward.
After all, it’s not about perfection—it’s about giving your child the support they need to thrive.
Dr. Aman PS Sohal is a leading speech delay therapist in Dubai, specializing in helping children overcome speech and language development challenges. With a compassionate approach and expertise in pediatric neurology, Dr. Sohal offers personalized therapy to support clear communication, social skills, and confident speech progress.
